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I am A Supportive Father
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Hi Ladies, gents. I hoping the someone might be able to offer me some advice. I turn to the net as the last resort.
I am in a relationship and my partner and I are expecting our second child, she is about 22 weeks pregnant.
This time round its a little girl, the pregnancy has been making her sick and making her feel very tired.
we do not live together and our son is 3.5yrs old now and an absolute joy.
Our relationship currently is pretty much non existant, I am struggling to find my place or worth in the relationship and question if it's even worth being involved.
We have a history prior to this pregnancy, but up until the pregrnancy our relationship was great. Since she got pregnant, she gotten moody and is questioning our relationship, moved out, see things from a completely different as pect to me, it is an extremely difficult and confusing situation.
I so do love her and our son and want to support her any way I can. Her moving our crushed me, now living in a large home all alone with out her and our son.
she lives in her own world really, I am just an after thought these days, we are together, but not really. As there is no phyiscal or emotional relationship I guess. Try as I may to do the right thing and support her, she just seems not understand or just hears something completely different to what I am saying.
I am desperate, my anxiety is starting to kick in again, I was wondering if there are any fathers or mothers that might be able to offer any advice..? or anyone how's gone through a similar situation, I would love to hear from you.
Cheers,
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